The life of coparenting with a narssasist

So the cliff ones version up until now is that my husband has been hands on with his toddlers as well as I have been. From day one of his separation, his kid’s mother (we will call her Marie for the purpose of anonymity), has been controlling and hateful. Any conversations are a battle and she is quick to cite, ” because I don’t think it’s a good idea” for many of her justifications to control the kids. Fast forward to December 2021, court order for custody was signed and since then, it’s only gotten worse. Vindictiveness, retaliation, name calling and hostile demands, parental allientation. Where does one begin to explain in depth how badly this hurts the children when the other parent(offending) won’t even have a civil conversation? The frustrations are endless!

Soon to come: the main daily battles and constant issues with coparenting even after having a court order.

Over a year ago I married my best friend and coworker. I had 3 teens and he had 2 toddlers. Our own reality show we called toddlers and teens. Blended families all take adjustments but both did I not realize just how rough it would get dealing with my bonus kid’s mom! This journey so far has been sad and shocking to say the least. I’ve gotten insight into how fathers don’t get a fair shake when it comes to divorce/separation and why good fathers become alienated from their kids. As with every obstacles my teens and I have encountered over the years, I decided to look at this just as I did those that came before. This is a learning experience and one that I feel sharing could help others in their journey. I hope you will come.back and follow the blogs to come and even if it’s just to read the ridiculous weekly events of coparenting with a narssasist, maybe you’ll learn or read something that helps you or others you care about. More to come tomorrow. This mama is tuckered out.

Where do I begin

How I got to here