Today is parental allientation awareness day. Not a lot of people truly understand what this means. It’s IS abuse in the most terrible form. It mentally twists a young mind into confusion and leaves them with guilt that lasts a lifetime. People often talk about the more obvious displays of alienation but what they don’t talk about are the little things. When your child is leaving for their other parents home and you shower them with love and continuously say how much you will miss them and you wish they could stay or didn’t have to go.It teaches your child to feel bad about leaving you to go to the other parent and causes a rift between them and the other parent. They worry that you will be sad while they leave. It teaches them they are hurting you by loving the other parent. When your child calls you and cried when you have to say goodbye, you tell them your sorry. That teaches them they are doing somthing wrong by having to stay there and not be with you on the phone. Why tell them your sorry. They should love and want to be with their other parent. These little things cause such heartache and confusion to the little minds. Stop playing the games with these fragile minds. Nourish and encourage their love for the other parent. Just because you don’t like their other parent doesn’t mean they can’t love and like them. They grow up feeling guilt guilt your vengeance and ruining their relationship with the other parent because of your feelings. Hype your kids up about transition days. Show them they can go and be happy with their other parent and your happy they get to.
The life of coparenting with a narssasist 